wow, you have 85 comments on this story already. Apparently you have illuminated a commonnality amongst a lot of us. LOL... Yeah, I can see how off putting that would be. I am 60 and this mule is certainly not what he used to be, man boobs and all. When I go to the pool, which is not often, I wear a tshirt. Yeah, I guess you couls say I am a bit self conscous and I dont want to gross anyone out. It is what it is. If I were a 20 something I would probably have hopped out of the hot tub or pool too. LOL... It is ok. We ARE just getting older.