Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Having a family member who is diagnosed with cancer is devastating. We lost a 10 year old daughter to cancer back in 2001. We spent 14 months watching her endure it all. Our Jessica was braver than all of us in the face of her pending death. I could write a book about my experiences. It seems as if you are asking many of the same questions I did. I hope your outcome is better than ours. May God bless you and your family in this time.