My wife, Katy, and I have been working on 33 years together. Your article is spot on. My wife is a saint. She is the most loving and patient soul on the planet. I know that because she has not killed me yet. Marriage is work and it requires an investment and commitment by both participants. Knowing how to say you are sorry for being an idiot is something to learn. Communications, honesty and forgiveness are equally important. Loved the article.