My mind went elsewhere when you first brought up this young lady in your story. lol. I am glad that you gave an explanation about their connection. I am sorry for your loss Bev. Your dad sounds like he was a wonderful person and was loved by many. I lost my dad in 1990 and we were not close. When he passed my adoptive mother made sure to not tell me he was getting close to the end and decided not to tell me until it was after the fact. She also made sure that I did not know when she passed. We had such a loving family. LOL.