I too had an experience like this at a gay bar in Houston Texas. Unbeknowns to me my employer was/is bisexual. He had a loving wife and 2 adult children. Talk about my being ignorant. I was invited to this bar called "Numbers" to drink, dance and have fun. I went to the bar to get a drink and got hit upon by someone that was impressed with how I looked. Talk about shocking..... LOL.