I loved your story. When you are newly weds there are things we are willing to over look. After all, love conquers all things, right? After year 5 reality sets in and you realize that your mate is not perfect and no matter what your plans were to change them it is not going to happen. For better or for worse. Until death do you part. More often than not couples wind up divorcing. Money matters, infidelity, snoring or whatever is on your list that causes you to quit. I am glad you are hanging in there and trying to find solutions. I am glad you are sleeping now. That is so important to our health and well being.