First off, congratulations. Your accomplishment is just that. A very positive milestone. I too have lost 80 lbs in the last 2 years. Weight loss is a journey for sure. It is a lot of work. Not only is there a physical aspect of losing weight but there is also a mental, psychological and emotional element. I think that guys manage these things differently. Maybe it is tougher for the ladies to deal with it. No matter what be proud of what you have done. You can do this.